Integrating.

Since being in my new community, my main focus has been integration. Integrating largely involves meeting people, getting to know my community as a whole, and figuring out where I fit in. This often requires me to step out of my comfort zone. People who know me know that I love my comfort zone, but I'm expanding my horizons every single day. Sometimes multiple times a day. Here are a few of my integration experiences:

At a school's promotion exercise, I met the principal and a couple teachers, one of the teachers whispered to me that Teacher C-- was coming and that I should meet him too. I first heard the name even before I entered my community; Mr. C--, English Teacher, from Cameroon, very nice man. In fact, obviously noting my skin color, many locals assume that I am also from Cameroon and respond with raised eyebrows when I explain that I am an American. Schools are on summer vacation at the moment, so I wasn't expecting to meet this famous teacher until school reopened, but he did show up to address to his students, as he finished his speech, I was called to join the stage. This interaction was super awkward for several reasons, but we got through it quite gracefully. I had to leave before the ceremony was over, and haven't had any interaction since, but I'm sure we'll meet again.

Meeting Mr. C.

I attended the wedding of my Mayor's son. It was a lovely event, quite casual and relaxed. The bride and groom, their families, and wedding participants dress up, but guests are more "smart casual" in their attire. This was one event where I got to be more of an observer than a participant... at least for a while. I did get to take a picture with the bride and groom, and then after the show was over, I found myself in the center of a ton of photos. I've actually gotten used to people snapping pictures of me in the market with camera phones, or grabbing my arm and pulling me into a pose for a friend already armed with a camera, but this night was different. I'm not a person who typically enjoys being the center of attention, but I found it quite fun and funny actually. Some people introduced themselves, most didn't bother, and it was at least ten minutes of picture taking before I was able to leave. 

Blushing Bride and Groom. And my new English Speaking Friend, Bea!

Yes Sir, we can take a picture. Nice to meet you by the way. 

At that point, I realized that my host mom and one of the teachers were nodding and giggling about something, my celeb status maybe? Before I could get curious enough, I was summoned to be the major (or mayor?) for the community sports day event. My title got lost in translation, but basically, I understood that I would be dressed up, in a mini skirt, and I would lead a march. 

On the night of the fitting, I had three options, I did not choose the mini skirt. In fact, I underestimated the heat of the day, and chose what I thought was the classiest outfit, not thinking that it would be sweltering when it was time to hit the road... The outfit needed no alterations, so the fitting did not last very long. We agreed that I should go home, get some sleep, and meet back in the morning at 5:00 a.m. to dteng-naa gap dteng-dtuua -- literally adorn my face and my body, but really, do make-up and get dressed. 

Suuai mai? (Pretty, right?)

I decided to walk back to the house after my fitting since it was only a few minutes away. So, back in my home clothes, walking back to the house, I saw a village meeting in progress. I had met the village leader earlier that day and recognized him as the facilitator. He recognized me too, walking past the meeting area, and he called me inside. He introduced me and I spoke to the group for a minute and answered a few questions. I found myself sitting through the meeting, and I actually understood some of the content. I'm glad that I got to be a part of it.

So when they said Peace Corps Volunteers are on duty 24/7...

Sports Day, summed up in two word: Rohn (HOT) and Sanuuk (FUN!). We started my day at 5:00 am with a make-up session. I brought my own brown makeup for obvious reasons, we used it, but I somehow ended up with a white face anyway. All part of the costume. I had lots of fun, received lots of compliments, and managed to avoid melting in the 100°F sun. I was beyond happy to get to go home in the middle of the day to shower. I returned to the event and enjoyed the sports activities, even did a little cheerleading. I got to meet a ton of people throughout the day, and had a really great time.

Full Thai Traditional. Who is that lady in red?

Leading the village in the parade.

Cheerleading with my village members. Pink Team!

One thing I love about this community (and this country!) is the genuine care, respect, and value given to the elderly population. The Community Health Center and City Hall Officials make home visits through various villages every week, and monthly pension is delivered in person, in cash. I really love this hands-on approach. One of the officers suggested that I teach the seniors English on these visits, but I'm not sure how beneficial that would be to them. I'm actually able to have pretty decent (sometimes even humorous) conversations with them in Thai... Like when this one lady held on to my hands as she asked the usual questions: where are you from, how long have you been in Thailand, do you like Thai food, do you have a boyfriend, do you think Thai men are handsome, do you want a Thai boyfriend? At this point, she began to really examine my palms, and she said that she saw a lot of boyfriends. I took my hand away and said "mai chai" (not correct), she said "chai, chai" (yes, correct) and winked at me. She was hilarious. So, this boyfriend business is a common curiosity among Thai people, sometimes the conversation gets uncomfortable, but I'm learning ways around it.

Able-bodied seniors meet at a central area in the village to collect their cash pension.

Home bound seniors are visited by the community health center and city hall officials

A couple senior "sports" going on in the background, but this was my activity of choice.
My young eyes and steady arms were much appreciated for needle-threading :-)
Oh, and there's nothing in my eye, I checked after I saw this picture...
And the strings on my wrists were given as part of a blessing ritual.
To ensure good luck, I must wear them for at least seven days, and remove them without cutting...

Today I had the opportunity to participate in a senior social event. It was a great day, sanuuk sanuuk (very fun), but the best part was when I had the opportunity to pay respect to the elders by pouring water on their hands, some of them splashed water on my shoulder as a blessing. It was incredibly humbling. Although I'm here to work with youth, I can see myself continuing to be involved with this population.

They are darlings!

The best part of my day. 

So humbled...

Speaking of water, Songkran festival begins in a couple days. I've been hearing about it for a while, it's the celebration of the Thai New Year and it involves splashing people with water in the street (and being splashed)! I've been looking forward to it for a while. Stay tuned!